Ш45
СИДЕТЬ НА ШЁЕ чьей (НА ГОРБУ чьём), у когоЖИТЬ НА ШЕЕ all
coll,
disapprovVPsubj:
human to burden
s.o. by being dependent on him for care, monetary support
etc: X сидит у Y-a на шее - X is a (heavy) burden to (on) YX is a millstone around Y's neckX hangs (a)round Y's neck(in limited contexts) X lives off Y.